Tonight we celebrated my brother Michael's (belated) birthday with a dinner at Red Lobster in Queensbury. My family loves Red Lobster for birthday celebrations because we can fit six siblings around a table easily (missing 7th sib, brother Danny, who relocated back to California with his wife Suzette last March). At RL, we can enjoy a good meal (very good, actually), and sit and hang out with each other long after our check is paid. That's just what we did tonight. It's a comfortable place for a group like us.
I've written about these birthday dinners before. They are special. Here we are, now realizing that we are actually getting older, and there's no denying it -- the oldest O'Farrell brother is 63, and the youngest sister, 53. When did that happen? It seems like just yesterday we were seven kids living together in the same house with our parents, a large, cohesive family. So much has happened over the past 40 years or so -- college, military service, marriages, babies, dogs, moving away, moving back, babies becoming kids, kids becoming teenagers, new relationships, more dogs, kids getting married, more babies... It's such a flash of events that pop like firecrackers in my brain, moments of life creating a collage of memories to pour over again and again, and savor.
Through all of these transitions, the one constant has been our relationship as siblings, with all that comes with big families. Sometimes it's easy; sometimes it's not, but it's always been something we can count on. My brothers and sisters and I have been through a lot together -- moving a lot as kids, growing up and staying connected, losing our father, and later our mother. We were mid-life adults with no parents, with still half our lives to lead, six siblings to support each other through happy and sad times.
When you think about it, no one has known you longer or better than your sisters and brothers, the people who know everything about you, and, like the saying goes, "love you just the same."
I appreciate the fact that I have six siblings. They are a great bunch. Hope you had a happy, happy birthday, Michael. I look forward to sharing many more together, and...I hope you like the cupcakes!
Making the best of every day by embracing what matters most: Family. Friends. Food. Fun. And writing about it all!
Thursday, November 17, 2011
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Ellen's Stardust Diner and Popeye Spinach Salad
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| Popeye Spinach Salad from Ellen's Stardust Diner in NYC |
I slept in this morning (all the way to 8:00 am!) after spending a great day in New York City with my friend Catherine Golden. Catherine is a professor of English at Skidmore College and had invited me to join her and a bus-full of Honors Forum students on a day trip to the city to see the play Avenue Q. Our bus left campus at 7 am and arrived in New York just before 11 am, so there was plenty of time to sight-see and shop before and after the play. We were dropped off at Bryant Park, right behind the NewYork Public Library. Catherine and I started off by window shopping (and actual shopping) at Bryant Park where vendors are set up all around the skating rink. There's a wide variety of crafts and goods for sale there, with international food vendors as well. I bought hand puppets for Henry and Peter, a pirate for Henry and Stuart Little for Pete (can't wait to give them to them this morning!). Moving on to the New York Public Library, we were so excited to see a display of the actual toys that were the inspiration for A.A. Milne's Winnie the Pooh stories. In addition, we saw pages from Virginia Woolf's last journal as well as her walking cane, and also a display of items belonging to Malcolm X, including pages from the journal of his trip to the mid-east, and his briefcase. I took a photo of Catherine outside the library, as well as pictures of the stately lion sculptures guarding the entrance.
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| New York Public Library |
Before the play, we stopped for lunch at Ellen's Stardust Diner on 51st Street. Though the line waiting to get in was wrapped around the building, we were happy to wait and were seated in about half-an-hour. It was jam-packed, with tables butted right up against each other, but that just added to the fun. Aspiring Broadway stars/waitstaff belt out tunes as they work, the epitome of multi-tasking! Each and every "performance" is amazing, and last month alone nine of their staff were plucked away from the restaurant to perform in theaters on- and off-Broadway. Having lunch at the Stardust is like a free pass to a wonderful show, and all you have to pay for is lunch (thank you, Catherine!), which for both Catherine and me was the Popeye Spinach Salad. It was a plate full of the freshest spinach, candied walnuts, sliced pears, dried cranberries, the creamiest goat cheese, with a delicious sherry vinaigrette (I have to get that recipe!). I had sliced chicken added to mine. We were in and out in time to get to the play, the theater just two blocks from the diner.
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| Ellen's Stardust Diner! |
Avenue Q was very entertaining. It's a play set in a poorer neighborhood in the city, where most of the characters are puppets dealing with life's challenges (unemployment, relationships, personal identity, race, cultural differences) and it does so with incredible humor (sometimes raunchy to a PG-17 level!) and sharp and witty insight. The actors/singers put on a wonderful show and interact with the audience, making it even more fun. It was almost three hours long but it was so fast-paced that I never once looked at my watch. Everyone left there smiling and singing!
When we left the theater, it was dark (at 5 pm!) and the perfect opportunity to catch New York's beautiful lighted landscapes with my little Canon camera. We slowly walked the city blocks back to Bryant Park where we each grabbed a Turkish square pastry to go, made of filo dough, spinach, and cheese, and nibbled on those as we waited for our bus.
It was an easy, comfortable day enjoying one of the world's greatest cities, the place where both my parents were born over 90 years ago, and as our bus pulled away, I caught a glimpse of the illuminated skyline and said to myself, once again, "I love New York!"
Friday, November 11, 2011
11-11-11
Today is Veterans Day, 11-11-11. Rather than post a patriotic dessert recipe, I am providing the following link to a Web site that shares information about how to donate packages, or send letters, to our servicemen and women. There are many options for sending letters, donating packages, Christmas stockings, etc. I think it's a great opportunity to honor those who serve and sacrifice so much.
Here you go : http://troopssupport.com/
Photo credit: http://www.google.com/imgres?q=Veteran%27s+Day&hl=en&sa=G&biw=1280&bih=831&gbv=2&tbm=isch&tbnid=MsLIKyf2HYvBlM:&imgrefurl=http://bplolinenews.blogspot.com/2011/11/bpl-closed-veterans-day.html&docid=KLBwMBp_NN13IM&imgurl=https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO7onmi_j_rcqmSsxDmBrvgTUghfL19kJ-4lQjQB6zU-P6ZbPjGXRRE-HRFDTUtFB7GFnCXx71uBfdXBUMrvZJpHv3vZlKoFtuRpEF6y9jPOCwjeYpph9PPASb-9x3rYkP-VqwFXtHU60/s1600/VeteransDay.jpg&w=648&h=587&ei=IW-9TvvjHsqqgwfDssiiAg&zoom=1&iact=rc&dur=317&sig=118072427327376465552&page=1&tbnh=131&tbnw=145&start=0&ndsp=26&ved=1t:429,r:0,s:0&tx=87&ty=72
Here you go : http://troopssupport.com/
Photo credit: http://www.google.com/imgres?q=Veteran%27s+Day&hl=en&sa=G&biw=1280&bih=831&gbv=2&tbm=isch&tbnid=MsLIKyf2HYvBlM:&imgrefurl=http://bplolinenews.blogspot.com/2011/11/bpl-closed-veterans-day.html&docid=KLBwMBp_NN13IM&imgurl=https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO7onmi_j_rcqmSsxDmBrvgTUghfL19kJ-4lQjQB6zU-P6ZbPjGXRRE-HRFDTUtFB7GFnCXx71uBfdXBUMrvZJpHv3vZlKoFtuRpEF6y9jPOCwjeYpph9PPASb-9x3rYkP-VqwFXtHU60/s1600/VeteransDay.jpg&w=648&h=587&ei=IW-9TvvjHsqqgwfDssiiAg&zoom=1&iact=rc&dur=317&sig=118072427327376465552&page=1&tbnh=131&tbnw=145&start=0&ndsp=26&ved=1t:429,r:0,s:0&tx=87&ty=72
Thursday, November 10, 2011
Pecan Pie
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| Pecan Pie from the Food Network Kitchens |
I've written before about the foods my mother used to make for us - classics like tuna casserole and meatloaf. She was a simple cook, and we really enjoyed everything she served us. I'm not sure she enjoyed cooking so much, day after day -- feeding a family of nine was a chore no matter how you look at it. She'd often say the thing she liked to make the most was reservations! Maybe that's why we, her grown children, really love to eat out.
There were certain foods my mom especially liked. I remember she loved maple walnut ice cream, or sometimes pistachio. She loved nuts. She liked lady fingers. I remember odd things about specific foods -- my mom liked the corn relish at Wally's of Greenwich, a restaurant she used to go to with her friends, Blanche and Betty. She loved the Olde Daley Inn in Troy, especially the salad bar, but also the out-of-shell crab dish. My mom, little woman that she was, could build a salad like nobody's business!
In honor of my mother's birthday, here's a recipe for pecan pie, one of her favorite desserts!
PECAN PIE
recipe from the Food Network Kitchens
Dough:
1 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons sugar
1/8 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup cold butter (1 stick), diced
1 large egg, lightly beaten
Flour, for rolling the dough
Filling:
5 tablespoons unsalted butter
1 cup packed light brown sugar
3/4 cup light corn syrup
1/2 teaspoon fine salt
2 cups chopped toasted pecans
1 to 2 tablespoons bourbon
2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
3 eggs, lightly beaten
Directions
Make the dough by hand: In a medium bowl, whisk together the flour, sugar, and salt. Using your fingers, work the butter into the dry ingredients until it resembles yellow cornmeal mixed with bean-sized bits of butter. (If the flour/butter mixture gets warm, refrigerate it for 10 minutes before proceeding.) Add the egg and stir the dough together with a fork or by hand in the bowl. If the dough is dry, sprinkle up to a tablespoon more of cold water over the mixture.
Alternatively, make the dough in a food processor. With the machine fitted with the metal blade, pulse the flour, sugar, and salt until combined. Add the butter and pulse until it resembles yellow cornmeal mixed with bean-sized bits of butter, about 10 times. Add the egg and pulse 1 to 2 times; don't let the dough form into a ball in the machine. (If the dough is very dry add up to a tablespoon more of cold water.) Remove the bowl from the machine, remove the blade, and bring the dough together by hand.
Form the dough into a disk, wrap with plastic wrap, and refrigerate until thoroughly chilled, at least 1 hour.
On a lightly floured surface, roll the dough with a rolling pin into a 12-inch circle about 1/8-inch thick. Transfer the dough to a 9-inch pie pan and trim the edges, leaving about an extra inch hanging over the edge. Tuck the overhanging dough underneath itself to form a thick edge that is even with the rim. Flute the edge as desired. Freeze the pie shell for 30 minutes.
Set separate racks in the center and lower third of oven and preheat to 400 degrees F. Put a piece of parchment paper or foil over the pie shell and fill with dried beans or pie weights. Bake on a baking sheet on the center rack until the dough is set, about 20 minutes. Remove from the oven and lift sides of the parchment paper to remove the beans. Continue baking until the pie shell is lightly golden brown, about 10 more minutes. Reduce the oven temperature to 350 degrees F.
While the crust is baking make the filling: In medium saucepan, combine the butter, brown sugar, corn syrup, and salt. Bring to a boil over medium heat, and stirring constantly, continue to boil for 1 minute. Remove from the heat and stir in the nuts, bourbon, and the vanilla. Set the mixture aside to cool slightly, about 5 minutes. (If the crust has cooled, return it to the oven for 5 minutes to warm through.) Whisk the beaten eggs into the filling until smooth. Put the pie shell on a sheet pan and pour the filling into the hot crust.
Bake on the lower oven rack until the edges are set but the center is still slightly loose, about 40 to 45 minutes. (If the edges get very dark, cover them with aluminum foil half way during baking.) Cool on a rack. Serve slightly warm or room temperature.
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Recipe and photo credit: http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/food-network-kitchens/pecan-pie-recipe/index.html
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Eventful...
Oh, my ADK Baker followers, I've missed you! Over the past two weeks, I've been very busy at work and also in my personal life. After my car was totaled in a head-on collision with a drunk driver, I've been especially busy with insurance policies, car shopping, and financing a new car. Car-related things are winding down, and I am now driving a Jeep Patriot, better suited to the rigors of a northeast winter and the challenges of an ice and snow covered driveway. It's a bit of a silver lining in an otherwise very frightful experience.
To think about things other than cars, totaled and new, I always turn to baking. Last weekend I baked quite a bit, and have this collage of the cinnamon rolls, scones, and muffins that I put together Saturday afternoon.
To add to the drama of the past two weeks, mother nature decided to gift us with a little pre-season snow storm. While I absolutely dreaded the thought of winter driving with my Mazda, I am actually looking forward (did I say that?) to the first real snowfall to see just how well my Jeep handles the white stuff...
When life gives me lemons, I don't make lemonade. I bake (and take pictures!)...
I won't stay away so long again, promise!
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| Old and New |
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| Jeep meet driveway/driveway meet Jeep |
To think about things other than cars, totaled and new, I always turn to baking. Last weekend I baked quite a bit, and have this collage of the cinnamon rolls, scones, and muffins that I put together Saturday afternoon.
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| Baking Frenzy |
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| Pete the blue dragon, and Henry, the "space rocket ship" |
To add to the drama of the past two weeks, mother nature decided to gift us with a little pre-season snow storm. While I absolutely dreaded the thought of winter driving with my Mazda, I am actually looking forward (did I say that?) to the first real snowfall to see just how well my Jeep handles the white stuff...
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| Winter, you're early. Come back later... |
When life gives me lemons, I don't make lemonade. I bake (and take pictures!)...
I won't stay away so long again, promise!
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Julia's Strawberry Shortcake Birthday Cake
Earlier today I delivered a birthday cake to 3-year old Julia, whose party was this afternoon. Julia's mom, Rebekah, is a former neighbor of mine and, along with her sister Robyn, has been friends with my own kids since they were all pretty little. They all grew up together in a quiet neighborhood in rural Greenfield Center, New York, and all the (now grown) kids seem to have fond memories of those years, from kindergarten right through high school. It was a neighborhood where kids could stay out all day long and no one ever had to worry. I used to call my kids in for lunch and dinner, and then they played outside until it was time to come in for the night. They loved it.
Rebekah asked if I could make a Strawberry Shortcake birthday cake for Julia's birthday party, and sent me a photo of her "inspiration" cake, which I attempted to replicate but also add my own touches. For this cake, I baked an 8" tier and a 6" tier of yellow pound cake. Layers were filled with pink vanilla buttercream with just a bit of raspberry flavoring (extract). I carved the 6" inch cake into the strawberry house shape, crumb coated both tiers, and then started to decorate. The finishing touch was a little Strawberry Shortcake doll (that I had searched a number of stores to find!) perched at the bottom of the cake. A few fondant flowers for trim, and Julia's cake was complete.
Here is a collage of photos of Julia's cake:
Rebekah asked if I could make a Strawberry Shortcake birthday cake for Julia's birthday party, and sent me a photo of her "inspiration" cake, which I attempted to replicate but also add my own touches. For this cake, I baked an 8" tier and a 6" tier of yellow pound cake. Layers were filled with pink vanilla buttercream with just a bit of raspberry flavoring (extract). I carved the 6" inch cake into the strawberry house shape, crumb coated both tiers, and then started to decorate. The finishing touch was a little Strawberry Shortcake doll (that I had searched a number of stores to find!) perched at the bottom of the cake. A few fondant flowers for trim, and Julia's cake was complete.
Here is a collage of photos of Julia's cake:
Sunday, October 23, 2011
The Making of a Barn Cake
For Pete's first birthday party, Katie asked if I could make a barn-yard cake. Researching wasn't too satisfying, because I couldn't find an image that matched what I had going on in my brain. I wanted something quasi-authentic, not too cutesie (event though Pete is VERY cutesie!) and I didn't want something terribly out of scale. Many of the cakes I found on-line had barnyard animals that seemed like giant specimens next to a little barn. Hmmm. Well, I baked a big rectangle of yellow/chocolate marble pound cake, and sliced it into thirds. I thought I'd stack the three sections and see what would come of it. This cake was designed as I went, which is a gamble for something as significant as my own grandson's first birthday bash... Anyway, it all came together better than I could have ever hoped, with a little fondant, a little food coloring, and a little imagination. I was at a loss about the roof, and then I thought of slate shingles, and made my own shingle strips with fondant and overlapped them, resulting in a pretty neat roof. As it came together, it seemed a little impersonal -- where would I ever write "Happy Birthday Pete"? Then I thought of old advertisements I used to see on the side of barns, like a road-side billboard, and decided that the back of the barn was the perfect place for the greeting.
In the end, I didn't make barn yard animals. Henry's toy barn had all the appropriately-sized livestock (plastic stock?!) this little barn needed. Accessorized with Katie's owl and pumpkin cupcakes, and my own haystack cupcakes (with fondant pig butts peeking out!) we ended up with a pretty nice barn yard cake to ring in Pete's second year!
In case you think that the party was all about cake, you should know that there was quite a feast beforehand. Bill and Katie hosted grandparents and friends for a pig roast (because you know all one-year-olds want one!) and I just had a hard time looking at the pig. I knew it was being roasted. I know that I am a hypocrite because I buy deli-sliced ham and bacon, but the immediacy and reality of THAT pig roasting outside of our house just kinda made me feel bad, and though I don't want to get into a debate about why this does and should bother me, let me just say that I love the movie "Babe" and I won't be able to watch it with Henry, not for a while...
Following are photos of the party, followed by pics of the making of Pete's cake. Hope you enjoy!
And here are photos of the creation of Pete's birthday cake:
Pete had a terrific first birthday party. Hope you enjoyed reading about it!
In the end, I didn't make barn yard animals. Henry's toy barn had all the appropriately-sized livestock (plastic stock?!) this little barn needed. Accessorized with Katie's owl and pumpkin cupcakes, and my own haystack cupcakes (with fondant pig butts peeking out!) we ended up with a pretty nice barn yard cake to ring in Pete's second year!
In case you think that the party was all about cake, you should know that there was quite a feast beforehand. Bill and Katie hosted grandparents and friends for a pig roast (because you know all one-year-olds want one!) and I just had a hard time looking at the pig. I knew it was being roasted. I know that I am a hypocrite because I buy deli-sliced ham and bacon, but the immediacy and reality of THAT pig roasting outside of our house just kinda made me feel bad, and though I don't want to get into a debate about why this does and should bother me, let me just say that I love the movie "Babe" and I won't be able to watch it with Henry, not for a while...
Following are photos of the party, followed by pics of the making of Pete's cake. Hope you enjoy!
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And here are photos of the creation of Pete's birthday cake:
Pete had a terrific first birthday party. Hope you enjoyed reading about it!
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